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The Complexities of Humanity’s Desire for Growth

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Where does humanity’s desire indeed lie? With how society is progressing, have humans attained what they need for satisfaction? Or have they veered far from true happiness?

The world is immensely different now than how it was, say, five or ten years ago. Society has continuously sought and achieved developments, working to advance technologies and communities in hopes of easing and improving people’s lives. But if one stops to look around, even just a moment, are lives significantly better? Or have people desired to achieve more than they can handle, biting off more than they can chew?

Regarding the discussion of humanity’s desire, nothing comes before happiness. It’s the pinnacle of human needs, which they constantly aim to appease and look for in every endeavor. Whatever they do, they hope the result gives them happiness and contentment. However, the longer they seek it, the more they get confused about what genuinely provides it. This happiness gets lost in translation, blurred by the numerous opportunities and resources provided by society.

 

The Happiness Encompassing Humanity’s Desire

In the book by Chet Shupe entitled Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature: How Civilization Destroys Happiness, the author established that humanity’s desire for survival has always been connected with happiness. Humans don’t only need to survive; they must also find happiness. However, humans have mistakenly sought this in knowledge, mistaking satisfaction for happiness.

They believe that happiness is found in the success of their developments and technology, that they’re happier when buildings become taller machinery eases work, or when the latest gadgets drop one after the other. However, Chet Shupe defines this as a misconception, believing none convey the true definition of happiness. This might as well be a satisfaction to see the result of people’s hard work, but it’s not genuine happiness.

Throughout this journey of constantly developing and advancing as a civilization, people have forgone to fulfill humanity’s desire. Instead, they’ve repressed how they genuinely feel in exchange for this false sense of survival and happiness.

It’s no question that technology has made lives better. Things have become easier to handle and more accessible due to the continuous advancements in society. Technology has made resources accessible to people from all walks of life. But in doing so, they might have overlooked that development is making life progressively faster, forcing people to juggle tasks and peace. Although technology has inexplicably improved society, it has made people forget what truly matters.

 

It’s Not in Knowledge That People Thrive in Happiness

These developments brought about by accumulated knowledge may have helped people secure material needs. But it doesn’t fulfill what they genuinely want. Regardless of how efficient life has become because of machines and technology, it won’t be half as fulfilling without connection.

Humans are social beings. It’s in humanity’s desire, their emotional heritage, to seek comfort and contentment in emotional connections. They may be blinded in feeling satisfaction through societal developments. But they will only achieve genuine happiness through deep emotional intimacy. Material developments and abundance might have aided their survival, but connection and intimate interaction with each other lead them to survival and happiness.

This connection would be easy to satisfy if people don’t have other needs. However, civilization and its laws enclose people’s decisions, reshaping what people should enjoy.

In today’s civilization, happiness occupies the lowest bar for humanity’s desire. With the need for success, landing high-paying careers is typically prioritized regardless of whether they provide happiness. Instead of seeking fulfillment in emotional connection, they’re left to find gratification elsewhere. This is where accumulating knowledge and the satisfaction derived from continuous societal development come in.

Although they don’t provide genuine happiness, people constantly seek them out because, for the very least, they’re a stand-in for the connection they can’t proactively seek.

 

Love and Happiness in the Wrong Places

This misplaced humanity’s desire for advanced knowledge doesn’t contribute to what truly matters. People shouldn’t seek progress but rather real contentment through happiness and experiencing love. The more they believe that happiness can be found in this progressiveness, the more humanity’s desire becomes insatiable, always seeking more.

People’s growing love for knowledge has made them less after true wisdom, which would make their lives flourish more. Instead of development and progression, love and experience are the primary elements to help achieve balance and harmony in the world. They’re what people need to survive longer and live happier lives. People aren’t drowning because of a lack of resources but because they’re spending their energy and time on the wrong priorities. Humans didn’t evolve because of civilization. They grew because of the community and connection they’ve built with each other.

Avoiding Pain and Stunting Emotional Growth

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How is it possible that the more we try to avoid pain, the more it hurts? Why should we stop running from it when it’s one thing we want to steer clear of?

You might have experienced being at the lowest point of your life for the past few years. Those moments make you question your life in general. What more could be lacking, even for people with everything they need?

There are moments when we hit a level of vulnerability we’ve never experienced. We feel like a failure even though waves of happiness can be felt from time to time. This causes us to look for more ways to alleviate the pain. But the emptiness will catch up to us even if we try new things like getting a new job, new partner, new hobbies, etc.

If you’re caught up in a situation like that, rediscovering the wisdom of human nature and our spiritual freedom can be suitable for people who have constantly been running from their fears. While avoiding pain may be great, it won’t go away soon. And the insightful honesty of Chet Shupe’s book fits just like that. The Spiritual Freedom Press can guide you in navigating the fearsome path of life. Avoiding pain is only temporary, but it’s not the only solution.

How long must we keep avoiding pain?

In all honesty, no one knows. Everyone struggles with pain, and reactions often vary depending on the gravity of the situation. There’s not enough wisdom to singlehandedly take the pain away from us. Time won’t fly, making us paralyzed by it. So if one asks that question, the answers would vary and won’t make sense.

It’s also natural for humans to seek pleasure to avoid pain. No one likes to carry on with an aching heart. This instinct is hard-wired into our subconscious, and we are shaped around it. Undeniably, we are all inclined toward safety rather than confronting the hurt. However, moving along a path with the least resistance will get us nowhere. It even comes with worse consequences.

What do we learn from pain?

All of us want to grow at some point. But we intentionally forget that pain is part of growth and the catalyst of change. Without experiencing it, we fail to learn what matters most, eventually destroying our happiness. We won’t be as capable and enduring in the long run. Humans are conditioned to avoid pain; confronting it sometimes feels like an unfamiliar concept.

Our thoughts are often full of wanting everything to be enough. If only we achieve that in all aspects, we believe life can be pain-free. The problems we’re trying to escape from would still pop up somewhere else, most likely on a slippery slope. By continuing the same path, we develop a relationship with avoidance. It makes us alienated from the world the more we side with it.

Numbing the terrible pain is understandable. But our ultimate survival lies in our choice to face the pain head-on. Our troubles resemble dark clouds – circling and hovering as it follows us. We can only swat it off when we learn to develop tolerance. That’s because there are excruciating moments that we have to live with for a lifetime.

Lessons from a cruel fate of avoiding pain

It’s never easy to let ourselves be vulnerable and feel the pain. Despite being transitory, the hurtful moments in our lives can be a turning point that changes us entirely. We become different from what we used to be, affecting our relationships and potential for growth. Looking for our old selves will take us an indefinite amount of time, and most likely, we’re still trying to find it. So it’s okay. You’re not wrong for enduring that long, especially when you felt alone or lonely the whole time.

Cruel is the pain that has legs that can run and wings that fly towards us wherever we go. When going through it, there’s a feeling that there won’t be any help. After all, the world has taught us that it’s every man for himself. Our judgment gets clouded when our world splits down the middle, making it hard to find closure. All those wounds won’t be stitched up anytime soon.

We can run, but here’s the catch: avoiding pain never meant that we could hide. And so we run from the things that cause us more hurt. Avoiding pain also means circling in the middle of nowhere until we think we feel nothing anymore. However, not making it go away leads to more ruin. Not even the typical distractions can help long-term. By exerting effort to confront our pain, there lies the strength that’s been hiding the whole time.

All About Social Constructs And Examples Of What They Are

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Social constructs stem from a collective belief that came to be after a particular group accepted it. By learning what social constructs are and their examples, you might have a grasp on what needs to change.

Certain societies or groups form a uniform mindset on what everyone else must follow according to their standards. Sometimes, they’re not often based on objective realities but more on the idea of being acceptable personally. Social constructs do not hold any meaning.

It is usually up to the people to give context to the rules and systems they’re trying to implement. One of the most concrete examples is how pink pertains to girls, and blue is to boys, which applies to clothing or any other item. This idea shaped society’s perception for a long time until it was unlearned recently. Rather than being a form of truth from an objective standpoint, that belief came from being given meaning within a social context.

Books like “Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature” by Chet Shupe are good references that talk about humanity’s potential to live happily, if not for the ridiculous artificial order imposed by institutions. Chet Shupe wants readers to know that we can still uncover the wisdom that serves as a roadmap to regain our natural sense of purpose; despite how civilization destroys happiness.

Examples of social constructs

Many social constructs were formed and became a norm after a long period of teaching them to succeeding generations. Such standard practices were widely accepted since people of authority deemed them to be. When those concepts were formed, those responsible for the widespread ideals were seen as role models – people with all the right to impose rules and regulations for everyone to follow.

Here are some examples of common social constructs that we are following and living by, subconsciously or not:

Adulthood – the age at which a person is considered an “adult” is subjective and will depend on every individual’s situation. For example, the United States and European Union see that people aged 18 are grown, adults. In other parts of the world, however, adulthood begins at age 16. But don’t mistake it as the legal age for drinking. Certain countries legalize drinking for young people at the age of 21.

Gender norms – there are behaviors that people perceive as something that belongs to a specific gender. A good example would be how men are not allowed to be emotional, while it’s normal for women to be. A man can react, but a woman can only overreact. Another is the notion that boys should stick to playing with trucks and video games while girls should dress in pretty skirts and play with dolls.

Gender norms alone are a complex issue that’s currently being broken down. Society has seen gradual changes over time, although there’s still a long way to go, with a lot to work on. For example, the belief is that women are built for marriage and being wives while men go to work. Specific industries that used to be exclusive for men (medicine, construction work, entrepreneurship, etc.) have been taken over by women, breaking the old cycle of jobs that belong to a particular gender.

Governments – governing bodies are social constructs where models of leadership and authority are formed to implement order in society. However, not everyone operates the same way. Different communities function under various governing bodies rooted in their history and culture. Hence, the diverse types of governments worldwide.

Family – usually, people think of “family” as a basic unit that forms the community. The traditional setup of a mother, father, and children usually defines a family. A married couple is legally bound together under a sacred institution of marriage, and they subsequently produce children. Today, a family being biologically related to one another has been slowly blurred and redefined. Family can be a friend, a pet, or even a group of strangers platonically caring for each other.

Marriage – not all groups agree on a universal form of marriage. Religious beliefs picture it as a divine sacrament that can never be broken except by death. Some groups view it as a political and economic alliance for personal gain. Arranged marriages, where groups from both parties set up a man and woman together without the necessary emotional attachments, are also part of typical social constructs.

However, with the change of tides in gender roles, many people are working towards shifting what must be considered normal within the context of marriage. For example, the idea is that marriage is a personal choice and doesn’t have to be necessarily a show of proof that people love each other.

Religion – religious practices were born from a desire to seek guidance from a higher being. Humans were wired to look up to somebody, be it another person or a divine individual. Religion is also a highly regarded social construct that influences culture and history. They are one of the primary reasons that society operates a certain way, and in some cases, the laws of the land are rooted in religion.

In conclusion

One thing you should know about social constructs is this: you don’t have to conform to every one of them, even if it means earning the ire of many people around you. People who go against the flow may have been treated like an outcast, excluded in many social interactions, etc. But looking at them closely, they seem happier, more accessible, and relieved that they are not bound to those social constructs.

Book Feature: Chet Shupe On The Wisdom Of Human Nature

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Did humanity make a colossal mistake when it decided to evolve from how it once was? Chet Shupe takes on how human nature has changed and developed over time in his book “Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature.”

No one can pinpoint the exact turnaround that led to humanity’s road to evolution. From primitive beings who only lived by instinct and discovered the simple joys of igniting a fire for the first time. Old folks would say, “Life was way simpler back then.”

What would life be like if humans had not created and imposed the intricacies of communication called language? How would we go on about our day if we weren’t required to be functional members of society, working our backs off capitalism?

Chet Shupe’s book emphasizes living in the present, erasing all traces of anxiety. The book also describes how language changed everything and manifested into a monotonous lifestyle we cannot escape.

The price of evolution

As history depicted, early primitive humans didn’t have specific rules and systems to follow. They go along with whatever life in nature has to offer. Food and shelter were the only basic needs that even we modern-day people prioritize.

There needs to be proof of when the interest in the future began. Still, after humans gained knowledge and used it to their advantage, that’s where civilization rose at the cost of blood and several other tragedies.

Human transformation collectively manifested in several ways – from the carvings of cave dwellers to the early civilization in Mesopotamia and Ancient Egypt. These civilizations became a catastrophe to the once carefree way of life, creating law and order. Along with that concept comes the price of disregarding such rules, such as the concept of “punishment.”

Literature and language were gifts that enabled man to walk the Earth and become intellectually superior to all other creations of the Earth. However, it came with various negative attributes like exploitation and greed. Those things led humanity into a series of disasters, whether natural, economic, or psychosocial.

How humans led themselves to the road of worry

Ever since man learned to read and write, we’ve had an unpleasant relationship with the future as we tend to look down on people who don’t have a clear and decided lot; and people who choose to live in the moment are often viewed with disdain.

The idea of not being able to plan for what’s to come and not guaranteeing tomorrow became one of the worst fears known to humans.

Untangling the thread of worrying about the future

It will take a lifetime for some people to unlearn the rigid structures set by society. The abilities we gained after being gifted with language may have given us ways to safeguard ourselves for the long term.

However, that’s not what we were primarily designed to live. Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature by Chet Shupe shows us how the rise of civilization over time destroys happiness. It delves deep into detail about how the covert idea of future stability and security makes life lose all its meaning.

With progress came destruction, and it doesn’t have to pertain to the inevitable “end of the world .” It can mean the constant weight of anxiety, loneliness, and desperation. These things can make people search for endless ways to be happy.

The human evolution from learning the basics of language may have increased our capacity to do many things. At the same time, it degraded our emotional intelligence and ability to have empathy. Living in the moment induces anxiety for many of us since we were groomed to think that if we don’t prepare now, we’ll be sorry later.

Chet Shupe: author and whistle-blower

Chet Shupe, out of the urgency to look into people’s connection and true nature, was born out of unity. The author goes on a journey to rediscover the wisdom of beauty and the knowledge of humanity. After suffering from Attention Deficit Disorder, Shupe lived a life of hardship and went through treatments.

Despite what happened to him, Chet Shupe thought that life made sense somehow. Due to his extraordinary experience, he began writing about medical treatments for the brain. Chet Shupe realized while writing about brain dysfunction, and he discovered that there’s also a long-running cultural dysfunction.

As a result, he tackled the intellectual, emotional, spiritual, and psychosocial aspects of how humans used their intelligence to their advantage, but at the expense of simple joys. The constant pursuit of happiness became the author’s main objective in this book.